it is not easy to be a housewife

have you ever thought that being a housewife is the easiest job to do?

well i will say that it is not that way

you know

starting early in the morning

they have to boil the water , think on what to prepare for breakfast

then waking up the children

then thinking of what the husband would want to wear to work

ironing their clothes

perhaps her husband want to bring some food to office

then cleaning up the table

start to do the laundry

hang them up , and pick them up when it's already dry

think on what to cook for lunch

buying things for the preparation

dinner

tea time

supper

bla bla bla

that is not included when the husband are depending 

on her for children's education

for cleaning up the house

for this for that

you know

EVERYTHING 

have you ever thought

when you lost you socks or even t shirt

who are you calling to get them back?

your mom right?

how do you ask her for it?

yelling and waiting for her to get things back?

or try to look first and then you ask her?

which one?

if your mom ask you to get it by yourself

have you ever say to her as

" what have you done at home? you are the one whose doing the cleaning and things "

have you ever say like that to her?

LOL

well

i dont wanna say anything

but hey you could think that by yourselves

only when she wants to lay down and rest

that is when you want to look everything in this world

mom , where is my this , bla bla bla

consideration is needed

you could find it by yourself at first right?

yeah at least

have you ever see your mom or wife laying down to rest

then you say

" hey , do some works , prepare the dinner or whatever ,

dont just laying down like that , i am tired coz i just came back from work "

you know that when you came back from work or school

or whenever you have been before

she has done everything in the house from morning till night

non stop

and when she wanna have a rest

yet you say she hasn't do anything?

lets say if a wife is working

she still need to do the same

when the husband are resting and waiting for the rest to be prepared

that is not the right way i guess

you know

everything will be easier if you do have some consideration

if we help each other to make some move with the house chores or whatever

that would be better right?

so what i am trying to say is that

try to appreciate what you mom / wife or whoever in this world

that has done everything for you

you know to let the house to be in harmonious way

everybody should get involve in it

not only by one party or some party

having family is the same as having a management in the office

when once you rely on one party to do the job

you will never beat the rest in terms of profit and quality management

lets have a thought about this

and makes some move to make things better

i would try the same here

so 

take care everyone

be someone who could contribute something to your house hold ;)